Blow Job Tips For Beginners

We are often concerned about the taste of our vaginas, but have no problem spending time pleasuring bland or even gross penis. Just as you would prep yourself, you can prep his member in a fun and sexy way. Try a flavored lubricant to add to the fun. They come in many different flavors and some even help with gag reflexes. This can make it a whole lot more enjoyable for the both of you. Be sure to stick to lubricants that are safe for your vagina as well. This way, there is no clean up before insertion.

If you do choose to swallow, which is completely up to you, you can skip the taste if you just aren’t into it. Try placing his penis as far back in your mouth as you can take before you actually enter your throat. As he begins to ejaculate, use your hand to aim his member towards the back of your throat. The back of your tongue doesn’t have nearly as sensitive taste buds as those in the front. The taste will be much less noticeable. Be sure to wrap your mouth firmly around it leaving little space inside. Swallow during the process so that your mouth never fills. This great for both parties, it’s pleasure-able for him and makes swallowing much easier for you then attempting to swallow and entire load in one go.

We often forget in the heat of the moment to check for signs of STDs and infections. Be sure to examine anything going near your mouth or face. Remember, you can get STD’s in your throat and Herpes can be transmitted easily through oral sex. You don’t have to make it super obvious. Simply act as if you are admiring his piece, rubbing on it and staring at it. Use this time to check for any irregular bumps, drainage, smells or skin infections.

Men don’t have eyes on their penises. You can mimic deep throating by wrapping your tongue around his shaft and blocking the back of your throat by raising the back of your tongue. His penis will still be able to penetrate but at a slower pace and he will feel as if he is reaching a new part of your throat. Crisis averted. For added emphasis, make sure you lick the base of his shaft to ensure it is lubricated, then use a hand to stoke as you massage with your tongue.

For more tips, check out this Quickies With Myi podcast episode, as I give tips on blowjobs for beginners.